Sometimes in life, you might find yourself in a ditch you never thought you could be in. You might be lucky if the ditch is not so dirty or deep, but I’m sorry if the ditch is so dirty and deep that you can’t see the end of it.
You might be wondering why I’m speaking in parable; hey, a rat does not run in broad daylight except something is chasing it or it’s chasing something (oops! I can’t help not using parable).
Most times when we find love or love finds us (it depends), we tend to do the most stupid things for love not minding what the end result would be. Is it wrong to fall in love? Nope. As a matter of fact, love is a beautiful thing if you are in it with the right person or at least the person who believe in love.
Personally, I believe that…
Love does not lie (but some are pathetic liar)
Love will protect you when no one else will (some will expose you even if no one will).
Being in love with a liar is the greatest mistake any woman can ever make. Because a liar will
cover one lie with another lie and before you know it, he will build a castle of lies in the sky for you to live in.
The most painful part of a lie is, when a guy paint you bad to his family who adore the very ground you walk on. What else will you say about a guy who broke off an engagement because of a one night fling that his friends pushed him to do, and he turned around to lie to his family that you broke up with him because you found another guy (which is practically a lie). And the family never contacted you to hear your own side of the story before condemning you.*sigh*
All I need to say is, be careful of people who tell petty lies because they will lie against you behind you someday and you won’t be able to defend yourself. You can fall in love with your heart but please take your head along too.
It’s so painful when you discover that the lies an ex told on you in the past, is actually haunting you presently and making you serve undeserved punishment.
Although forgiveness may seem impossible in this case, still, forgiveness is the key to a fresh start.
Stay positive, pray and hope for the best. As for the ex who lied against you… ask God to forgive him (or her as your case maybe).
P.S
I love writing in parable because it is the best way to express myself. Besides, I come from the Western part of Nigeria, where we believe so much in aiding word with parable “Ti oro ba sonu, owe la ma fi wa”.
Have a great day folks.
